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May 29, 2020

Self-care for the Caregiver

Caregivers often have self-imposed expectations, pressuring them to feel they should be able to handle every situation that they encounter with little or no support or assistance. There is this tremendous pressure to “do it all,” taking care of children and aging parents while maintaining a career and the home. Instead of having a sense of accomplishment, many feel guilty when they run out of the energy needed to handle all the tasks.

Mother and Daughter walking in the hallway of a hospital

Signs of Caregiver Burnout 

  • Emotional roller coaster
  • Become irritated over small things
  • Withdrawal from friends & family
  • Changes in sleep patterns
  • Difficulty getting through a day
  • Unable to concentrate
  • Changes in appetite and/or weight
  • Feeling overwhelmed or anxious
  • Excessive use of alcohol, medications or sleeping pills

Ways to take care of yourself 

  1. Take care of your own health. First, take care of your own health so that you can be strong enough to take care of your loved one.
  2. Watch for signs of depression. Signs include constant sadness, feelings of hopelessness and pessimism, changes in appetite and sleeping patterns, & trouble concentrating.
  3. Seek support from other caregivers. Support groups show you, that you are not alone & can offer needed practical information.
  4. Take respite breaks. Respite care is short-term assistance by an outside provider which will allow you a moment to rest. Also, consider an adult day health service & seek help from family members.
  5. Accept offers of help.  Accepting help from others allows your loved one to spend time with others & for you to have a healthy break. Others are willing and able to help, but they don’t know what is needed. Suggest specific things people can do to help you, such as picking up groceries or driving your loved one to an appointment.

Caregivers are as important as the people they care for. It is important to recognize the signs that you need to take time to care for yourself. Remember you have the right to maintain aspects of your own life that do not include the person you care for. Supporting and protecting your individuality allows you to care for your loved one, as well as, do some things just for yourself.

Resources for Support

• Area Agency on Aging – http://ohioaging.org/area-agencies/
• Caregiver Actions Network – https://caregiveraction.org/
• Employee Assistance Program (EAP) — Ask your employer
• Family Caregiver Alliance – https://www.caregiver.org/taxonomy/term/94
• National Mental Health Association (800-433-5959 or www.nmha.org)
• Your family physician

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WRITTEN BY: Dr. Roseanne Scammahorn, Extension Educator, Family and Consumer Sciences, Ohio State University Extension, Darke County, Scammahorn.5@osu.edu

REVIEWED BY: Kellie Lemly, Extension Educator, Family and Consumer Sciences, Ohio State University Extension, Champaign County, lemly.2@osu.edu

PHOTO CREDITS:

  • sarcifilippo from Pixabay

SOURCES:

  • The Caregiver Toolbox: Guide to Independent Living - http://www.coaaa.org/cms/images/docs/guides/COAAA_Caregiver_Toolbox.pdf
  • 10 Tips for Family Caregivers - https://caregiveraction.org/resources/10-tips-family-caregivers
  • Care Community - https://caregiveraction.org/forum
  • Defining The Help You Need - https://caregiveraction.org/defining-help-you-need
  • Depression - https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/depression/index.shtml
  • Strategies for Coping with Caregiver Stress - https://www.agingcare.com/articles/strategies-for-coping-with-caregiver-stress-135916.htm

REFERENCES:

  • Area Agency of Aging (2018). The Caregiver Toolbox: Guide to Independent Living. Retrieved February 6, 2020, from http://www.coaaa.org/cms/images/docs/guides/COAAA_Caregiver_Toolbox.pdf
  • Aging In Place (February 2020). Caregiver Burnout. Retrieved February 6, 2020, from https://www.aginginplace.org/caregiver-burnout/
  • Caregiver Action Network. (2020). 10 Tips for Family Caregivers. Retrieved February 6, 2020, from https://caregiveraction.org/resources/10-tips-family-caregivers
  • Caregiver Action Network. (2020). Care Community. Retrieved April 17, 2020, from https://caregiveraction.org/forum
  • Caregiver Action Network. (2020). Defining The Help You Need. Retrieved April 17, 2020, from https://caregiveraction.org/defining-help-you-need
  • Caregiver Action Network. (2020). RESPITE: Time Out for Caregivers. Retrieved April 17, 2020, from https://caregiveraction.org/respite-time-out-caregivers-part-1
  • National Institute of Mental Health, (2018). Depression. Retrieved on April 17, 2020, from https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/topics/depression/index.shtml
  • Sollitto, M. (October 2019). Strategies for Coping with Caregiver Stress. Retrieved February 20, 2020, from https://www.agingcare.com/articles/strategies-for-coping-with-caregiver-stress-135916.htm
  • Smith, M. (October 2019). Caregiver Stress and Burnout. Retrieved February 6, 2020, from https://www.helpguide.org/articles/stress/caregiver-stress-and-burnout.htm

Categories: Family and Consumer Sciences, Family and Relationships, Mind and Body, self care
Tags: Burnt out, caregiver, depression, mind and body

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