Summer is usually a time for a change in routine for families that allows a little more time together to do the things we enjoy the most. Talk with your family about what they enjoy most about the summer and what things you want to do before school begins again. Even for those of us without children, it’s still a time to take a break and enjoy the sights and sounds that are only available during these warm months.
Why is spending time together important? I could make a list of reasons why I feel family time is important, and I hope so could you. Here are some reasons stated by the Relationships Foundation that may reinforce our thoughts. (www.relationshipsfoundation.org)
*Spending quality time together is when we really get to know one another. We learn how to listen and share our thoughts and feelings with each other which allows us to use those skills as we make friends and eventually go on dates.
*Time together can be fun and educational. For young children, much of their basic learning takes place in the many informal situations that we do on a daily basis. Mealtime, bedtime, getting dressed, going shopping, dealing with problems, making choices, etc. all provide opportunities for learning.
*Children need to know that they are loved, unconditionally. This means loving them no matter how they act, what they win or don’t win, or when they have a “bad” day. It means that even though we don’t approve of the behavior, we still love and accept the child for the gift they are.
*By living in a family, children learn to share, how to stand up for their own rights and how to love others.
* Children learn about values and morals from our families. They learn what is important to us, and how to be honest, reliable, accountable and loving because of how they see the family in action.
I’m sure that you can add to the list of things you strive to teach in your family. The important thing to note is that, children are watching and learning every day from the examples we set. So get your calendar, talk together and see what activities you might do yet this summer to strengthen your family!
