Some of you may be considering the option of leaving your children home during the summer. This is a big decision with lots of responsibility to consider. Following are a few thoughts for you to think about:
*Is your child ready to stay by alone? Can they follow directions? Can they entertain themselves? Are they comfortable being alone in your home?
*Practice situations that they may find themselves in. What happens if they go out to play? Where is acceptable? What happens if they get locked out of the house? What if they get bored?
*Are they only responsible for their care or are there younger siblings they must care for? How do they handle arguments? What are the consequences for disobedience?
*How do they check in with you? How do they reach you in case of an emergency? What is your plan “B” as a backup, who can they turn to for help if you can’t be reached?
*What are your house rules? Are friends permitted over while you are gone?
*How do they prepare meals and snacks, are they prepared to use the microwave or range top safely?
*How structured is their day, do they have additional responsibilities to do before they watch TV or play games on the computer?
*Consider their personal safety and instruct them on what to do if approached by a stranger on the street, or how to answer the door when alone.
Children need this knowledge to be confident in their time alone. Make sure you role play or act out different situations so the child puts this knowledge into action. Children who are mentally and emotionally ready to stay alone have the skills they need to be safe. Communication is essential for everyone to talk about the possibilities and to make the right choice for your family.
